Online Dating Secrets

A Man’s Secrets to Successful Online Dating
3People have taken to online dating like a duck takes to water…because it works…or, at least, it can work. Women are, in general, terrified of meeting a man that she has been chatting with online. All they have heard about are the scary things that can happen…and, I must say, they have a right to be careful to the extreme. That’s not only wise but vital. So what’s a nice guy to do? You aren’t a pervert, a sexual predator, or a weirdo. You are just a nice guy looking for “the” girl for you.

You must be patient. Don’t press her for personal information like her real name or where she lives. Keep your conversations light and fun until she feels comfortable talking with you online. Don’t try to rush her into meeting face-to-face. She will think you are desperate or a pervert. Patience. Patience. Patience.

Be absolutely honest about your physical appearance and job. A good relationship has never been, and will never be, built on lies and deceit. Eventually she will find out the truth anyway and there you are back at square one.

A picture really is worth a thousand words. Post many pictures of yourself doing your everyday activities and make them full body shots, not just head shots. If you were dating a girl in the real world she wouldn’t just see your head.

Once the discussion has been opened about meeting face-to-face for the first time, suggest that you meet in a very public place, during daylight hours and that she bring a friend with her. After all, you have nothing to hide. You’ve told her the truth about yourself and she has already seen a lot of pictures of you. The only thing left is to make her feel safe meeting you.

The Art of Online Flirting

Online Flirting – A New Art Form

dfaaaaaMany of the same things work for online flirting that work for “brick and mortar” flirting and all relationships begin with successful flirting.  Flirting is an art that requires oozing confidence without being OTT.  If you go too far, she will label you “slimy” If you don’t go far enough, she will label you “wimpy”.  So how do you achieve that point half way between slimy and wimpy and do it online without using eye contact or body language?  All you have is a computer an internet connection and membership in an online dating site, right?

  1. Have fun!  Be light-hearted, funny and entertaining.  Make her eager to talk to you again.  Flirting is playful.
  1. Ooze confidence.  Successful flirts have a positive outlook on life.  You need to transmit the “feel good” factor.  An optimistic attitude attracts females like honey attracts flies.
  1. 3.  Compliment her…and do it often and sincerely.  Nothing opens doors like making her feel good about herself.  She will want to spend more time with you and if she pays you a compliment say “thank you”.  Do Not be self depreciating.
  1. Listen…listen….listen.  Pay attention to what she says and ask appropriate questions.  Get her to open up and talk about herself.  Make her feel like she is interesting and that you are interested in her.  Works wonders!
  1. Don’t be rude.  Flirting does not include being sexually explicit nor taking offence if the lady isn’t responding to you. If she isn’t interested, take the hint and move on to the next prospect.  If you get a lot of rejections, you should probably consider a different approach.
  1. Send an email after you chat.  This ranks right up there with sending a thank you note for a gift and it is vital to successful flirting.

Don’t try to go too fast.  Flirting is the first step to a successful relationship.

Welcome to my New Blog

mluceI know how to make anyone look beautiful, but certainly don’t know how to make my blog look like a beauty queen.

My technical knowledge is limited, but not my creativity!

My spelling and grammar sucks, but not my passion!

My love life is vain, but not my love making ability


that’s me…

Marie Luce

…more to come 🙂

What Women Want (Implicitly)

Of course I am not going to attempt the impossible.  Being a woman, I can tell you that there is no way in this planet  to know completely what women want! Even we women don’t know exactly what we want…Yet, I would like to share some implicit needs and desires most women have that I know when it came to compassion.

Since this blog post is all about dating and relationship, I would like to give you few tips to guys while searching for  new date/love or mate.

Physique or Character?


Some women seem to claim that they are not primarily attracted to the physique of their partner but his character. Some of them are lying and the rest of them implicitly desires some physical traits in their partner (Yeah I know, there are some feminists and lesbians.)

How taller are you?

Let’s start with the height of a  man. Most women like their man, a head-height taller. This way they could graze their face on their men’s chest while hugging. During a side hug, when her man put his hand over neck, a women could feel utmost protection like it’s the safest place in the world. You certainly don’t need Adonis Ratio to attract a woman.

Your chest and biceps?

Women love wide strong chest. During pillow talks they like to put their chin on the chest. Sometimes put her ear above his heart to hear the heartbeat while talking (Beware, this may be a polygraph technique).

Not to mention, the alternate pillows they use while cuddling, the biceps of their man (it’s good, almost every time!). And most gentlemen out there would keep their arms steady despite of the pain due to low blood circulation. Isn’t it romantic?

The video below reveals some more useful information worth listening. There are millions of worthless videos on youtube about “what women wants” (mostly uploaded by men)

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Soon will share more information ya!

Pros and Cons of Various Breast Enlargement Methods

The popular notion is that breasts are the organs that lend a woman her femininity. This has made women always very conscious of their breasts. Most women are always dissatisfied with the way their breasts look, and are game for methods that promise an increase in the size of the bust.

mnbst720The quickest method of enhancing the bust is augmentation mammoplasty, or simply breast augmentation. But women are apprehensive of this surgical process. This has made women today explore the various non-surgical methods available to increase the size and improve the firmness of their breasts.

Alternatives to Breast Augmentation

These are the important non-surgical methods of breast enhancement. Below is a table that summarizes the pros and cons of these methods. If you need to use any of these methods, it is very much necessary to know about them fully well first.

Non-surgical Breast Enlargement MethodProsCons
1.Herbal Breast Enhancement Products
  • Easy to use.
  • Contain only natural products.
  • Cheap.
  • Effects not substantiated by medical science.
  • Most ingredients can have side-effects.
  • May cause hormonal imbalances in the body.
2.Breast Firming Massage
  • Very simple to perform.
  • Firms the breasts.
  • Flushes out the toxins from the breasts.
  • Helps in disgorging milk from the breasts.
  • Requires an expert hand, or may spoil the shape of the breasts.
  • Could be painful to some women.
  • Effects take a long time to show.
3.Breast Firming Exercise
  • Very effective in enhancing the chest muscles.
  • Provides overall body fitness and not just the breasts.
  • May be difficult for some women to perform.
  • Requires a regular performance for effects to show.
  • Causes a general state of mental well-being.
  • Not substantiated by medical science.
  • Requires the user to be devoid of any thoughts and focus the mind.

Many non-surgical breast enhancement methods are being popularized today. This article mentions some of the more popular ones.

Herbal Breast Enlargement Products

Perhaps the most widespread of the non-surgical breast enhancement methods is the use of herbal breast enhancement products, which are quite simply known as breast supplements. These supplements can be in various forms, such as pills, lotions, creams and sprays. The ingredients of herbal breast enhancement products are traditional herbs, which have been relied upon by women of generations. The most common ingredients are:-

  • brestrogen2Fenugreek extract
  • Fennel seeds
  • Saw Palmetto
  • Dandelion root
  • Cayenne fruit
  • Blessed Thistle
  • Mexican Wild Yam
  • Damiana root
  • Siberian ginseng
  • Chinese ginseng

These herbs contain a kind of estrogen called as phyto-estrogen, which is quite similar in function and composition to the natural estrogen present in the human body. The phyto-estrogen stimulates the adipose tissue of the breasts. Source

It is believed that the stimulated adipose tissue will then regenerate, thus causing a filling up of the breasts. Manufacturers of herbal breast supplements also claim that their products can tone the overall firmness and shape of the breasts. Most of these claims are refuted by medical practitioners.

Breast Enlargement Massage

mnbst116There is a very simple massage procedure which is practiced by women to firm up their breast tissue. The massage contains four basic moves to be practiced on each breast in turn. The four moves are as follows:-

(i) First moveHold the nipple and gently slide your fingers downwards, towards the base of the breast.

(ii) Second moveKnead your breast slightly holding them in the cup of your hand.

(iii) Third move – Holding the breast in the cup of your hand, twist it clockwise. When it is twisted to its maximum, twist the breast in the anticlockwise direction.

(iv) Fourth move – Finally, hold the breast at the base and pull out, i.e. towards the nipple. When the breast is stretched to its maximum limit, release it and continue.

Thus breast massage is a very common procedure and can be done by the woman at no cost within the privacy of her bathroom. However, it must be done daily, and effects take a long time to show.

Breast Enlargement Exercise

Many exercises that are targeted at chest improvement can bring about a sizeable change in the breast also. This is because the adipose tissue making up the breast is placed directly over the pectoral muscles of the chest. Hence, a firm chest will push the adipose upwards and give a firmer breast.

Yoga has several asanas that can help at breast enhancement. However some of these asanas are difficult to perform and are not the cup of tea of every woman. Regular exercise only can show any measurable results.


The most unconventional of the non-surgical breast enhancement methods is hypnosis. This entails creating a positive outlook in the mind of the woman and being happy with her breasts. This is supposed to stimulate the hormones and cause an increase in the breast size. Needless to say, hypnosis as a method for breast enhancement is severely criticized by medical science. Creams like Breastrogen is an effective alternative.


I tried Ideal Lean Protein Shake For Women – Got Libido Boost!

Ideal lean protein shake for womenA few weeks ago, while doing some random shopping on Amazon I came across this Protein shake specifically formulated for women.

I wasn’t born with lean body like many blessed women. I have no regret though; I like it and love it the way I am. However, it feels so much awesome when you shed just 10 pounds. Sex is lot more enjoyable when you shrink some of your belly bulge. I don’t know whether it is due to increased libido or feeling of being sexy! 🙂

What is Ideal Lean?

Trying to lose weight is much easier said than done. If you are looking for some help, you may have considered purchasing a supplement. IdealLean is one of the many meal replacement protein powder that are currently available on the market. Before you go out and buy any, make sure that you consider all of the following information.

Product description from the manufacturer

IdealLean Protein is the best protein powder for women. IdealLean is specially formulated by women, for women to help you lose fat, build lean muscle, and earn your ideal body. In addition to 20g of high-quality whey protein isolate, IdealLean Protein includes two unique nutrient blends: Fat Loss Blend and Recovery Blend. Together, they help you get lean and recover fast so that you can keep working towards the body you want.

IdealLean Protein is a whey protein powder for women that includes nutrients women need to stay strong and healthy, like folic acid, vitamin D, calcium, and even antioxidant-rich superfruits. In Chocolate Brownie and French Vanilla flavors, IdealLean Protein has delicious, indulgent flavor with 0g sugar, 0g fat, 0 carbs, and only 80 calories. Unlike other protein powders, IdealLean Protein gives you only what you need, with no added fat, sugar, or calories that take you farther from your ideal body. IdealLean Protein helps you get lean, get toned, and get the body you’ve always dreamed of.

Health Safety First…

It can be tempting to try something new if you are eager to get in shape, but you should always talk to your doctor about it. It is very important if you have PCO or going through menopause pain. You do not want to take anything that will hurt you in any way. For instance, if you have a medical condition, like diabetes, that requires daily medication, you need to make sure that there will not be any chance of having a harmful interaction.

Analyzing Customer Review of Ideal Lean

The first thing you want to remember is to read reviews of the product before you try it. Unfortunately, all of the products that are currently available on the market are not as great as people believe they are. Reading reviews will give you a good idea of what can be expected. I would suggest you read at least 10-20 reviews before you form an opinion and make a purchase decision.

Fortunately Amazon lists reviews from verified buyers. As of today there are 473 customer reviews on Amazon. Out of which 69% are 5 start ratings and another 15% are 4 star rating. Merely 5% left 1 star rating. I think that’s a pretty awesome for a weight loss supplement. Most of the popular products gets around 60-65% 5 star rating

How it works?

It doesn’t work like a miracle diet pills (and most of them are scam anyway) You have to make it work for you. It is basically a meal replacement protein with essential nutrition. What is important is that it gives you feeling of fullness for several hours.

Ideally, you start your weight loss program by replacing breakfast meal. If you want faster result then you can also consider replacing your dinner as well. I don not recommend that you skip your normal lunch for many reasons.

Best Practice Guide

Always take supplements exactly as directed. Some people make the mistake of taking extra medication to get a boost, but this is not generally how it works. You increase the chances of having negative effects if you do not follow the instructions.

If you are trying to get in shape, buying Ideal Lean may be very useful. With that said, going about things the right way will prevent you from having a negative experience. Follow all of the advice that was offered to you here and you will increase the chances that you will be pleased with the outcome.

Where to buy it?

I bought it from Amazon. It can be bought from their official website and may be from some retail outlets. I normally don’t shop from online shops except Amazon due to fear of getting exposed to SPAM and ID theft.

Click here to Buy IdealLean from Amazon

How to make great tasting smoothies with protein powder? Watch the sample video below. Is red smoothies any better?

The Tao of Badass Review

I recently finished reading “The Tao of Badass: Everything You Have To Know To Be A Complete Badass With Women” by Joshua Pellicer. If you haven’t already heard of this book, the “Tao of Badass” is a coaching system that promises to deliver on a very lofty premise: how to be irresistible to women.
Couple Kissing in Freight Elevator

Hello Man,

What is your goal in your life?

Get a better job, earn more, become a millionaire or f**k 10000 pu**y?

Or do you think all the women are empty soulless dolls?


First of all, this guide has been marketed using “reverse-psychology” approach to get your attention. Once you have completed the course you will understand (or master) that those so called reverse approach is not the secret to get a girl. (who is badass?)

Just to clear up any confusion, yes I am a woman, and I am of the opinion that this book does work to attract women. It worked on me with my husband, lol, but I won’t get into all that. He might not have ever read it, but he certainly behaved like he did…I don’t know…  Well, enough about me. Here in this review, I’m providing factual information only.

Now, first things first. Despite what the name might sound like, this book does not teach men how to be a-holes.

couple-sleeping-in-bedThis book is a sincere guide that teaches men how to be more assertive with women in a respectable (mostly law) way. The “Tao of Badass” gently coaches men who might be a little shy and timid, how to come out of their shells and find the courage to talk to women.

I should mention that I think this is one of the better publications I have read that explains effective strategies on how to attract women’s attention and keep it.

Say Goodbye to silly mind games and cowardly garbage!

I will go ahead and get an explanation out of the way of what the book is not. There are no silly mind games being preached in this book. There is no sneaky underhanded cowardly garbage. There is none of that, “underhandedly insult women to get them to prove you wrong so that they desperately seek male approval, trying to use reverse psychology to trick them into bed with you.” Which I have seen still unfortunately circulating in the general population. Just to be sure you know what does not work, you should read this.

And think about it a little more profoundly. Would you really want a woman that would fall for that? That sort of neediness, clinginess, and desperation in a female tends to leak out into other facets of life as well.

As a matter of fact, the “Tao of Badass” advocates the exact opposite of that passive-aggressive blather. This book can teach you how to be straightforward and at the same time gentlemanly.

I think this is so much better because it is a lot more accessible to men. And that certainly is more accessible to women. Most likely you are not an a-hole; you are a good guy who wants a woman in his life.

Now, let’s go through this book in a little more detail.

There is a hard universal truth with dating women, and dating period, that you are simply going to have to come to terms with:

heart-talksAppearance does matter.

This is true for both men and women, not just one or the other.

Now, this does NOT mean your genetic looks that you were born with. That has very little to do with appearance or going out on dates.

What DOES matter a great deal is having the right attitude. Exercising and keeping yourself healthy DOES greatly matter with appearance, because that is something you do have control over. And therefore you should be making the right decisions in that regard.

Smell and hygiene is vital too – Body full of perfumes and mouth full of mint is not the answer!

What the “Tao of Badass” explains that the way you present yourself to the world is important. The way you conduct yourself in public and the way you act around other people.

Women respond, for better or for worse, to the way you as a man feel about yourself. You reveal yourself in-

  • -whether or not you keep yourself in shape, (6 foot or 6 packs is not the key)
  • -the way you talk about yourself, (it shows your confidence)
  • -the way you talk about your job, (hopefully, your job is not professional f**ker)
  • -and the way you talk about how things are generally going in your life. (don’t show your desperation to get her p**sy)

This is all sincere advice. There are no trick questions here.

unhook-braWho told you that you have to become a narcissistic ass to get women’s attention? If you are a genuinely good and kind-hearted person, then you definitely do not want to lose that quality. Generally if you are happy with yourself and take good care of yourself, this will shine through in your appearance.

Again, you have to believe me when I tell you this – I am not saying that physical God-given looks like nose or jaw shape are paramount.

And yes, they also do not mean that one thing that too many men seem insecure about — I am talking about height. That is also genetics and it is not something that can be helped. So don’t worry about it.

Also, it must be emphasized that you do NOT have to be the cookie-cutter “big man on campus.” The popular guy that lettered in college football or whatever. Frankly, I think a lot of women find them a bore anyway. Listen to me carefully – I’m talking on behalf of 98% women; the remaining 2% could be an exception. I know that there are few women with sadistic, psycho behavior who fall under “date & cheat” type category.

If you are a little quirky, I feel that that is definitely in your favor. If you dabble in dubstep electronic music, or you enjoy online gaming and MMORPG. Don’t try to hide your own personality mistakenly thinking that this will get women to notice you more.

What matters to women is again, confidence. Women do place great importance on the way a man presents himself to the world.

  • Coupleonbench-Appearance,
  • -grooming,
  • -hair grooming,
  • -style of dress,
  • -do clothes fit properly,
  • -cleanliness, I mean good hygiene <<< ohh boy, this is really important
  • -his physical posture (no slumped shoulders of the defeated),
  • -the way he carries himself.

It is all about having the right attitude so that you do want to take pride in how you look. It is about learning to be happy with yourself. And if there are factors in your life that you are not happy with, then you must have the courage to do something about them.

That sort of conviction to activity is very attractive to women. As shallow as it might sound, women love men who get stuff done. For even more insight into women’s minds, Get this guide.

If you are naturally more timid and shy, well that is understandable. The good thing is, you will not be alone in endeavoring to do this. If they want, some men might just have a copy of the Tao of Badass in their ebook shelves just to refer to now and then. They can use it to boost them up, for moral support.

This book talks about how to approach women using very specific pinpoint techniques. For example, when you first walk up to a woman you are interested in — obviously don’t stand this close to her; that is creepy and off-putting. But don’t stand so far that she can’t tell if you are talking to her or not.

After I had read these things, I realized that it makes sense. You as a man want to be *assertive,* but not aggressive like a pig dog.

  1. How soon after walking up to her should you catch her eye and start making conversation?
  2. What are appropriate conversation topics upon very first meeting a woman?
  3. When is the right time to ask for her phone number? I think this is a lot harder for men and women than it has to be. Don’t ask for her phone number within two minutes of meeting a woman. First you two have to chat each other up a little bit, see if you enjoy talking to each other.
  4. How soon do you call her after that first meeting?
  5. If she agrees to an actual date, how many days later should that be?
  6. What kind of activities and restaurants would be appropriate for a first date?

If you want, you can think of the “Tao of Badass” as improving and fine-tuning your game. There is absolutely nothing wrong with having that elusive charming quality that is “game.”

This guide is not about hijacking a woman’s mind, hypnotizing or tricking her to sex. It is all about winning a woman’s heart the natural way (and that’s how it should be!)

Don’t think of it as being demeaning to anyone, least of all yourself. You have to have game in all aspects of your life — career, personal relationships, friendships. A little bit of swagger is a good thing.

When a woman chooses a mate, all of these things matter and we take all of this into account. Of COURSE we do.

As you might have gathered, there is an incredibly delicate balance between having self-confidence, self-assuredness, a bit of swagger — and not being an a-hole.

The Tao of Badass teaches you how to tread this fine line very carefully. It is an art, and with enough training you can become a master of it.

Eventually you will be able to train your own mind so that this all comes naturally to you, so that you can incorporate this into your own personality. It is a matter of changing the way you think, so that you can feel better about yourself.

liftherspiritAnother positive aspect of this book — One thing that I really appreciated about the “Tao of Badass” is that the author seems to actually respect women, and doesn’t sound like a pervert or Sadist. (To be honest, I read few books on Kindle authored by real perverts, narco-sadists, psychopaths, A**holes or a man who wasn’t born to a mother… well, I don’t have words to explain. I would clap and jump if they were hanged in front of Times Square… now call me a rude woman!)

Sure he is speaking to a male audience, but he does not talk about women as (forgive me) b*tches and h**s that are only worth racking up notches in your belt. He does not see them as empty soulless shells that are just for bagging and then leaving. (Again, forgive me.)

He sees them as whole, healthy, fully-formed human beings, yes equals to men.

The author’s point is that even as equals, if both people really do want a sincere heartfelt relationship, someone’s got to get the ball rolling. Someone has to get the sparks going, so that the relationship can start. So why not the man?

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